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Super Cute Valentine's Day Kissing Booth Mini Session in North Phoenix!

Super Cute Valentine's Day Kissing Booth Mini Session in North Phoenix!

Whelp, it's ALREADY Valentine's Day 2017 and we're over here like, where in the blazes did January go?! Despite the fact that time seems to be speeding up and our three beautiful kids won't stop growing, we took Valentine's Day minis to a whole new level this year! We have such amazing, handy friends (*cough You're the best Jo! *cough*) who built us this super cute kissing booth just for this fun little occasion!

We rounded up the kids, blew threw homework (we might have given them a few answers to speed up the process), and rushed over to one of our favorite local spots before the light faded! And holy sweet, golden sun are we GLAD we did! It almost didn't happen! The struggle was REAL to get these school-dazed kids out the door before that sunset. But we made it by the skin of our sugar coated teeth!

Everyone pitched in to make this one of our most memorable and fun mini sessions yet. Our oldest was such a great helper. He took charge and had so much fun role-playing and getting the two little ones to play along! The other two took the bait and were hooked. It also helped that we had jars of candy lying around everywhere. Our daughter is a woman after her mother's heart and couldn't keep her hands out of the candy jars though! And our poor youngest forgot all his money at home. Thankfully, his older brother and sister were willing to sneak a few chubby cheek kisses, free of charge!

We hope you have as much fun this Valentine's Day as we did doing this photo shoot. Find someone you love, hold them close, and don't be afraid to give out a few kisses free of charge too! Happy Valentine's Day lovebirds!

Tips for Dad's on picture day!

Tips for Dad's on picture day!

Last week we flipped the script and put our ugly mugs in FRONT of the camera for once! It was such a fun experience, the kids had a blast, and we know we got some great shots of our family (mostly because our photog was so awesome...yes we're looking at you Lauren)!

But we have a confession to make...it wasn't always such an enjoyable experience getting our photos done. Shocking, we know. We don't know what it is about picture day that makes all those wacky personality traits come out, but they always seem to make an appearance when we get in front of a camera. Trust us when we say, we've been there done that. We've had past photo experiences involving serious wardrobe malfunctions, bloody noses, and busted lips after full-on faceplants into gravel. (True stories...all of them...we swear.)

Successful photoshoots are a team effort. I've been a dad for almost a decade now, and been a part of a lot of family photo shoots in front of and behind the camera. I know most dad's don't particularly enjoy getting their pictures done. Truth be told, neither do I. But deep down I want my wife to be happy and if my beautiful bride wants pretty pictures, then, gosh darn it, that's what she's gonna get! So here are a few tips for dads to make your photo shoot way less miserable! 

Dad rule #1: Be supportive! This seriously can't be overstated! If this is the only rule you remember, you'll win at every photo session till the end of time. All my other tips are just icing on the cake. Your ATTITUDE on picture day can make or break the entire session. So do yourself (and everyone else) a favor and leave Mr. Grumpy Pants at home! We understand that you look forward to family photo day about as much as you look forward to your annual colonoscopy appointment, but please, for the love of everything holy, wives and moms look forward to this day for months, and when they look back at the photos from that day, they don't want to remember what a bad man-itude you had. Forget about what you'd "rather be doing," live in the moment, and enjoy the beautiful family God has blessed you with. Trust us when we say, you'll be glad you did...and so will your beautiful wife and adorable children.

Dad rule #2: Don't stress! Dad stress kills the vibe of a fun family session about as quick as the police rolling up on a frat party. What I'm about to say might sound a bit harsh, but we're all guys here and this is how guys talk. Deal with it ladies! Typically dad stress shows itself in one of three ways: pro-dad, helicopter-dad, or drill sergeant dad. (Confession time again...I've been all three of these at one point or another!)

Pro-dad is typically the dad who dabbled in photography back in high school or college and because he knew who Ansel Adams was once upon a time, he's now a "professional." We aren't doubting your knowledge or abiliites...seriously, we aren't. But, NEWSFLASH, you aren't here to take the pictures. You're here to be in them and follow Rule #1! So do that, and we'll take care of the rest!

Helicopter-dad is the one who is constantly fretting and fussing over the kids' hair bows, dirt on the shoes, or little smudges on faces. Typically, Helicopter-dad gave the whole family a 90 minute PowerPoint presentation in the car on the way over about "appropriate behavior." A better idea is to save the car-speech and allow a little "real life" into your photos. We want to showcase your family the way they really are, not the way The Helicopter-Dad PR Firm thought they should look.

Drill sergeant dad is the dad who thinks the louder he yells the more likely the kids are gonna listen. Except what usually happens when dad starts yelling is that the kids start crying, and then we get a bunch of pictures of snotty noses, red eyes, and frowny faces. No one wants that. So take a deep breath and let the kids be kids for about an hour. They don't bother us...REALLY. We have three ourselves and nothing your kids do is going to shock us. 

Dad Rule #3: Be attentive and flexible! Sometimes you're gonna have to wear a shirt you don't like. Sometimes you'll have to take a kid or two and go explore for a few minutes so we can get pictures of mom and baby. Sometimes you'll need to stand behind us and make ridiculous noises or goofy faces. Sometimes it's better to leave the goofy faces and silly dances to us! All that to say, you know your family the best and you know what will work best to bring out their personalities. Be mentally present at your session and be willing to jump in when we need a little extra dad help.

There you have it. We know that, as a dad, you'd WAY rather being doing a hundred other things on a Saturday evening. But if you can leave the Grump Train at the station, you might be surprised how much fun family photos can be. 

 

5 Things I Learned From Disconnecting (Sort of) For a Week

5 Things I Learned From Disconnecting (Sort of) For a Week

Facebook. Twitter. Instagram. Snapchat. Text Messages. Email. In our day and age we are ALWAYS connected. With the advent of the internet and smart devices, it is almost impossible to disconnect from the constant stream of information scrolling through your news feed. That is, unless something drastic happens...like, for instance, when you go over to a friend's house for a barbecue and you accidentally take your phone for a nice long swim and turn your iPhone into a really shiny paperweight! Whoops!

So after my phone did it's best Dory impression, I was kind of without a phone for a week. I wasn't completely disconnected since I could still access the internet on my computer. But I didn't have instant access to every corner of the internet like I was used to having in our smartphone saturated culture. Once I got through the initial withdrawal stage (the struggle is real people), I had some time to reflect and think a litte bit about how being constantly connected affects us.

Before I begin, I must confess that I am not advocating that we all go back to the stone age and start foraging for berries and hunting our own meat with sharp objects. I am an unabashed Apple fanboy (sorry Androidians!) and geek out (probably a little too much) over the latest iDevice or iOS update. So please don't take what I'm about to say as an endorsement of a completely disconnected lifestyle (although if that's your thing, more power to you!). Now that I've gotten that disclaimer out of the way, here are 5 things I learned from being without my trusty iPhone for a week:

1. Let's get THE most important one out of the way first. If you don't read the other 4 things I learned, at the very least, read this one. Here it is...Real relationships happen in real life with real people. This is something that I am sad to say, I forgot far too often. It is way too easy to assume that because your Instagram picture got a ton of likes and comments, or you have a constant stream of Facebook notifications, that you have lots of friends, contacts, and acquaintances and that people REALLY know you. As valuable as online relationships are, I learned that they are NOT a substitute for real live, face-to-face, interactions with other living, breathing people. It was truly eye opening to spend undistracted time with Megan and the kids and to really observe their personalities in action. We all know that family and friends are the most important things we have in this life, but sometimes we forget just how important they are when we are constantly being distracted by all that buzzing and dinging going on in our pockets.

2. The world is an awesome place! I didn't realize how often I buried my face in my phone as the world just kind of passed me by. Whether it was while I was walking to my car (I know, I know, texting and walking is a public safety concern), sitting inside checking out Facebook during an amazing sunset, or just constantly checking your phone throughout the day for no reason. Not to get all existential on you, but after a week without a phone, the birds seem to sing a little louder, the sky seems a little bluer, and a nice breeze is just a little more refreshing. Weird? I know. But it's true. Maybe it's because without a phone, I was just a little more "present" in reality, but I found myself noticing and appreciating the little things just a little bit more.  

3. I got so much more done! Without the constant distractions it was so much easier to stay focused and complete tasks. Dishes got done faster. Kids got put to bed on time. Daily chores didn't have to "wait till tomorrow." It's not that I was being lazy (well maybe sometimes), but without the constant starting and stopping during a task while you check email or see who's texting you, it was so much easier to get stuff done. I even picked up that ancient technology known as a book and read TWO of them! I found that instead of looking back at my day and wondering where the time had gone, I was able to look back and see all the tasks that had been accomplished. 

4. I remembered how to talk to people! True confession time. I am an introvert. No, that doesn't mean I sit in a cave all day and endlessly whisper "my precious" in a creepy voice to my iPhone. It also doesn't mean that I don't enjoy being around other people. What it does mean, however, is that I'm terrible at small talk and that sometimes I need a little extra "alone time" to recharge my batteries after being around other people for a while. What I realized though, is that far too often I would whip out my phone during those "awkward silences" at gatherings or during conversations. It was way too easy to get all Gollum-ish (minus the creepy whispering thing) with my iPhone so close at hand. Instead, without that "safe haven" just a pocket away, I was forced to really engage with people and maintain a bit of back and forth conversation. Crazy right?! Don't get me wrong, no one will mistake me for and extrovert anytime soon, and small talk still kind of makes my palms sweaty, but after a little practice this week with no phone, I am fairly confident I can keep the small talk train rolling down the tracks...at least for a little while! 

5. Finally, don't be afraid of the "B" word! Being bored isn't always a bad thing! Sometimes people eat because they're bored. Others whip out their phones and play Crossy Road. I'm not judging...I still giggle everytime Poopy Pigeon makes that "poopy" noise. However, after not having a smartphone for a week to magically whisk me away to car-dodging paradise any time I want, there were times where I was left to sit with nothing but my thoughts. In our consumer culture, we are constantly bombarded with things that want to "entertain" us and our smartphones are no exception. As I commuted to and from work with nothing to do but think about my day, wonder what the kids did all day, or contemplate the meaning of life, I realized that sometimes it's ok to be bored. In a weird way, I think our brains need a bit of time to sort thoughts, reorganize ideas, and get back on track, and boredom proved to be a really good way of getting my mind right.

Now that the week is over, and my new iPhone arrived in the mail, I'm trying to remember what I learned and change my habits a bit so that I don't fall into the same traps I did before. I utilize the vibrate and "do not disturb" function a lot more now than I used to. I try and schedule times to check social media instead of just "always being on." If there's a living, breathing human in front of me, I try my best to keep my phone in my pocket and give them my full attention. I'm also trying to maintain my new found reading habit. When its time to unplug, I try and leave my phone in another room because "outta sight" in this case really is "outta mind."

I still love getting on social media, hopping through traffic with Floppy Fish, or scrolling through articles on Feedly. But, after a week with no phone, I realized that a little less time with your phone and a little more time with the ones you love is a sacrifice we should all be willing to make.

This totally has nothing to do with phones but they're too cute not to add! :)

This totally has nothing to do with phones but they're too cute not to add! :)